How Do You Acknowledge New Seasons?


How are we already in September, my beautiful beings? Where did the time go? Here’s hoping your Summer was all you needed it to be and that the upcoming Fall provides a nourishing and bountiful harvest. 🫶🏾

"Everything will change. The only question is growing up or decaying." ~ Nikki Giovanni

Ya girl is doing a thing this month (as if that’s new news, right? 😆). Next week, I’ll join 300 Black Women business owners as we converge on the Goldman Sachs headquarters in New York City for the sixth cohort of their One Million Black Businesses: Black in Business program.

Now, why am I telling you this? Not for kudos (trust me, I’m still over the moon myself), but to ask, how do you celebrate the seasons in your life? After recounting the ease with which this application to acceptance process occurred with my therapist, she asked, “Have you considered the seasons of your life?” I had, but not deeply. Like, I knew things tended to happen around March and September relative to starting new jobs, but I hadn’t considered anything beyond that. With this program beginning in September, I began questioning how (if) others celebrate their life seasons.

To go a step further, we all appreciate that aging is part of life, but do we also appreciate how we change and evolve through that process, thus shedding or embracing hobbies, relationships, clothing, furniture, hairstyles, jobs, etc? Do we value and give gratitude to these season-changing experiences or lament what’s not happening or what we do not yet have ‘in the meantime?’

During this reflection, I found that anytime something left, whether it be a person, a job, or something I just knew was meant for me, anytime those things did not come to pass, it made space for something so much better. Something my pumpkin brain had not considered, but it was exactly what I needed when I needed it.

Soooooo, how do you acknowledge your life seasons, Reader?

“Just sit awhile and think…Never be afraid to sit awhile and think.” Lorraine Hansberry, A Raisin In the Sun

Audacious Action

  • Invest 30 minutes into reflecting on what’s happened in your life's seasons.
    • What did you learn about yourself?
    • How did it shape who you are today?
    • What came out of those experiences?

What I've Enjoyed This Month

I, Matter! Coaching Updates

  • Applications for the Q4 Pro Bono 4x4 Coaching Giveaway are open! (this is the last public giveaway until its return in 2026)
  • An announcement next month, a Pro Bono partnership for our STEM baddies. 💻🔬
  • Finally, we’re accepting new clients! Book a discovery session if you feel stuck, need a new role, or wonder, "this can't be all there is to my life?"

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